Rules About Women: Communication is Key

Let's Get One Thing Straight-

"FINE"...that one word, and you know you've done something wrong. It's been asked for years, why can't women just say things flat out? Well, guys, since when do you? There seems to be a habit of letting communication run dry and situations build until BAAAAM, you hear that one word. Most of the time, it could have been avoided.

 

 

What Does It Mean?

You both need to communicate. There are times when things best left said go unsaid. We all know them. That one thing you know will upset them if you say. That one touchy subject... If you let it alone, you may just end up having one heck of an argument.

 

How Do I Do It?

If you know communication is an issue, sorry to say it, but you need to start talking. Approach subjects delicately, but approach them. Don't just skirt around the edges. Tell her "Hey, we need to talk." and so it some place private- it's no one else's business. Make sure to let her know that its important, and yeah, they may think it's a break up, but clarify it isn't. Talk to them honestly and straight forward.

 

My biggest advice is this; Talk, but also LISTEN! Communication only works if both sides of the party talk to each other and are heard. Otherwise, you may as well be talking to a brick wall and vice versa. Remember that you're going to have to compromise and work towards better communication.



Memorial Day: The Soldier's Prayer

For those who bear the burden of defending our freedom...

How many men and women do you know who have worn a uniform sporting the American Flag?  My father, my grandfather, my uncle, and one day perhaps myself or my children. This country was built by the soldiers of the continental army and is protected by their successors.  Whether you agree or disagree with the military or the current agenda, remember that these men and women serve not only for theirs, but for your freedom. They fight across oceans to protect us so that we can dare to have our own opinions. So, today take a moment to remember those who have served and still serve this great nation and thank them for the many freedoms they protect.

 

For those who serve and have served, I thank you for that. I wish you all protection from here at my little computer desk. It is because of you and your efforts that I can choose to write my blog and speak freely. Thank you for protecting us and taking the burden of protecting freedom into your arms.

 

These words come from Psalm 91. They were recited by the 91st Infantry Brigade in WW1. The 91st survived three of the bloodiest battles of that war and it is said they did not suffer a single casualty. May they protect you as well as you serve your country and her people. I hope they reach you with the prayers and wishes of your loved ones and that they remind all of us here at home what you have gone through and what our predecessors fought for.

 

 

Psalm 91

¹ Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
    will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.
² I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,
    my God, in whom I trust.”

³ Surely he will save you
    from the fowler’s snare
    and from the deadly pestilence.
⁴ He will cover you with his feathers,
    and under his wings you will find refuge;
    his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
⁵ You will not fear the terror of night,
    nor the arrow that flies by day,
⁶ nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
    nor the plague that destroys at midday.
⁷ A thousand may fall at your side,
    ten thousand at your right hand,
    but it will not come near you.
⁸ You will only observe with your eyes
    and see the punishment of the wicked.

⁹ If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”
    and you make the Most High your dwelling,
¹⁰ no harm will overtake you,
    no disaster will come near your tent.
¹¹ For he will command his angels concerning you
    to guard you in all your ways;
¹² they will lift you up in their hands,
    so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
¹³ You will tread on the lion and the cobra;
    you will trample the great lion and the serpent.

¹⁴ “Because he loves me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him;
    I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.
¹⁵ He will call on me, and I will answer him;
    I will be with him in trouble,
    I will deliver him and honor him.
¹⁶ With long life I will satisfy him
    and show him my salvation.”
 

From all those here at home, we love you, and we are praying for your safety and for your safe return.

Thank you.

Rules About Women: A Little Goes A Long Way

Rules About Women: A Little Goes A Long Way

For when you're not really sure what she's thinking...

They like knowing you are thinking about them. Go out of your way to show them that. Don't assume they know, even if they do. A little proof goes a long way.

What Does it Mean?
It means taking time out of your day to show you care.

How Do I Do It?
Bring home flowers one day, maybe a stuffed animal or romantic comedy if that's more her speed. Tell her to put her feet up, enjoy a glass of wine, and cook her a nice meal. If you can't cook, order out and bring it home. Make the time personal, which means no loud restaurants, no movie theaters, no overly public places where everyone and their mother can see you. Take a break from a typical date night. Sometimes it's nice for the girl to be shown off on your arm, but there are days when they just want some personal care time with you. Other times, they'd really just love a neck rub, some spaghetti and wine, and a little time spent on the couch talking with you.

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